Happy Saturday! For anyone out there that's been on the verge of thirty, have you ever gone through a late 20s crisis? You, you know when you're trying to make real adult decisions, you're confused about EVERYTHING (career, finances, life in general), everyone in your life is getting marred, except you and your FOMO is at an all time high. Here's a little of what I'm going through....
Still not really knowing "What I want to be when I grow up!" - Yes, I know..I'm already " a grown up," but really...what do I want to be?
Dating/MARRIAGE- I mean...if I have to RSVP to another wedding I'm going to literally, SCREAM! Dating pretty much doesn't really exist right now & I don't even know how it works with this new social media age. BLAH. Can I just win..
Children- The questions.... You're getting older, do you want kids? When are you gonna have some children? Just STOP it. I understand I'm getting older, you don't already think I'm dealing with these questions myself, but wait...do I want children?!
Making Big Decisions - It's hard out here for an almost 29 year old, lol. I still get anxious when it's time to make big decisions. Money and saving and learning how to save is finally coming into play. Why do we need tons of money in our savings? I understand a emergency fund, but what exactly am I saving for? When is that rainy day coming? I mean I'll save it, but I still don't understand. LOL
Happiness- Does this make me happy? This is now a question I ask myself in any situation. I use to be one that cared about other people's feelings so much I would do things that didn't make me happy, but now it's all about me and my happiness. Which is a good thing, right? I just don't want to be selfish...see I have a serious crises going on.
I know I'm trippin', right? I'm just so nervous about turning 29. No more twenties, no more stupid mistakes, I'm going to be a REAL LIFE adult. I guess I need to just accept it. Will my style change once I turn 30? No more F21, is it a F31 that I don't know about?
How did you/are you dealing with being in your late twenties? Please share.